Don't use Training Wheels!

Training Wheels. I like to think of them as two little guys running alongside the bike, in a relentless effort to help a young rider stay upright. A very noble cause indeed, with the global team coming to the rescue of countless children as they make their foray into two-wheeled transportation.

Undocumented, however, are the countless hours that mom and dad put in after the training wheels finally come off. Holding, steering, supporting, as their young cyclist attempts to gain cycling stability. Hang on! Wasn’t this meant to be accomplished by Team Training Wheels? Why does graduation from this dedicated support system mean finding another crutch?

You see, what the training wheels really taught the child, is dependance. You can fall, and it will be perfectly fine. They are doing such a good job, that the young cyclist can literally sit back and enjoy the ride. In this manner, it can actually make it more challenging for the child to ride with their own two feet.

Well then, how do we teach independence?

Enter the Balance Bike. A two-wheeled pedal-less bike that naturally teaches the child to pick up their feet as they glide along. With this tool, they propel themselves forward, control their direction, speed, balance and all. The focus isn’t on allowing them to ride today but giving them the balance and skills to ride tomorrow.

In the Torah this week, we read that Aharon, the High Priest, is instructed to light the Menorah. The terminology used though is a bit strange. It translates as “when you cause the flames to riseup” instead of simply stating “when you kindle the lights”.

When lighting a candle, when sharing an inspiration, when being there for someone, it’s all about the candle. That the candle should stay lit after the match is gone, that inspiration should remain after the sun has disappeared behind a cloud.

So, whether you are helping someone out, or trying to kickstart your own flame, the goal - and in fact, the journey itself - should be, to pedal with one’s own two feet. 

Wishing you a good Shabbos and a fantastic week!
Rabbi Dovid Bush

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