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From the Rabbi's Desk

A Trailblazer

Abraham. A trailblazer.

Did you know that it all began when he was three years old?

As a curious young boy, his inquisitive mind realized that there must be an energizer to the energy, an originator for all of the pieces of this puzzle known as the world. As he fell asleep he wondered whether the moon, the shiniest orb in the night sky, might hold the power over all else. Yet when morning came it became evident that sun was certainly brighter, its radiance illuminating the day and warming the atmosphere. However when nightfall pushed the sun below the horizon, young Avraham understood that there must be a Being greater than the whole galactic system, a Creator to the world, a Master to the plan.

There had not yet been a revelation at Sinai, or an exodus from Egypt. Idol worship was the norm, with his own father, Terach, owning the largest idol shop in town.October 30, 2020.jpg

But don't underestimate the power of the youth. The purity and clarity through which they view the world, untarnished by negativity or bias. From the mouths of babes. One Talmudic sage would articulate that he was praying like a child. Unlike an adult who has concocted an image of what he or she thinks or expects Hashem to be, a child has a beautifully simplistic perspective, capturing the essence of G-d, Good, and Right in a manner that transcends limiting definitions.

I'm thinking about this concept as our son, Meir, celebrates his third birthday and first haircut, this Sunday. The way he watches Devorah lighting the Shabbat candles, his unadulterated excitement as the Challah is uncovered, his pride as he tried on his first Yarmulka (of course, it's a fire truck Yarmulka), his seriousness as he points to the letters of the Aleph Bet.

Meir, I hope and pray, that as you grow, your curiosity and enthusiasm never diminish. That you continue to run to do good deeds, bringing joy to others with your soon to be missing curls still virtually bouncing about.

And for the rest of us, and at a time when the world has such strong opinions and sentiments, let's try to occasionally tap back into child mode, interacting with wide eyes, open arms, and purity of heart. 

Navigating Raging Water

Waters raging. Unprecedented chaos. The world coming to an end. 

Of course, I'm talking about Noah and the Great Flood. The world had devolved into thievery, immorality, and disrespect. Not exactly the vision that Hashem had when creating the world. Time for a fresh start, a deep cleanse. "Enter into the Teiva - the Ark". Noah and his family who had remained moral and loyal would ride out the literal and proverbial waves in a triple-decker, 450-foot long wooden ship, fashioned without power tools.

What is the timeless takeaway that can glean from this story read in the Torah this week? 

At times, crises can arise. A deluge of worry and trouble can engulf us. Floodgates of financial or medical hardship might overwhelm us. Torrential civil (or not so civil) disputes may erupt, threatening to wreck home and work, waves rippling across communities and civilizations. Destruction and mayhem are all but certain. Is there any way out? Can we rise above?

"Enter into the Teiva." A little Hebrew word play. Teiva means "ark", but it can also mean "word". (Get it? Word-play). Hashem recommends that we delve into the words of prayer and Torah study to reconnect and to recharge. These capsules of inspiration serve as our floatation devices, ensuring that we don't sink into the quagmire. They allow us to ride a virtual zipline suspended above the noise and chaos. They allow us to maintain our direction and focus, protect our values, and achieve our goals.

The world we live in can certainly have its tsunamis and hurricanes. Jump into the lifeboat with a word of prayer or Torah, and discover a space of serenity.

 

5 Years!!

I can't really believe that it was five years ago that a white Toyota Sienna was driving up the hot and monotonous I-5 highway. 

Inside, excitement and apprehension as our family embarked on a new journey, motivated to create a vibrant and warm community inOctober 16, 2020 - 1.jpg Petaluma. New beginnings, similar to the "Six Days of Creation" read from the Torah this week.

Would the world be overrun by the selfish and wicked, or would this land be cultivated into a glorious garden, blank canvas filled with dramatic and striking colors, materials fashioned into a harmonious symphony?

As we drove, we pondered what would be the outcome in our mini globe. Would there be challenges and setbacks? Would we succeed in bringing smiles and joy? Could our hopeful and ambitious efforts grow into a community? What surprises and treasures might we encounter in this uncharted territory? Would our faith and good spirits allow us to sail the waves and plant the beautiful garden we envisioned?

October 16, 2020 -2.jpgAlong the way, in between the fields and orchards, (and cows), we found a small playground, perhaps used by the farmers' families in the evenings. For us, it was like a spring of water, life in midst of a desert, a tire swing suspended in the arid heat. To us, it was a sign that with smiles and connectedness (like the links of the chains), - and a bunch of cute kids - a joyous and lively atmosphere would surely sprout forth as the nutritious greenery across the dirt road.

Five years. It feels like yesterday, and yet so much has transpired. (We even had to go back and recreate the picture to see how the time has flown). Chabad of Petaluma may have started in our living room, but has since expanded to our wonderful downtown location, to the streets (#chanukahattheriver), to our community partners, and grown to encompass so many homes across our small valley. We are so grateful for the hundreds of friendships, the thousands of memories, the innumerable moments. I'd like to take you for a walk down memory lane, but I'd likely run out of virtual ink, and anyways isn't that what facebook is for? 😉

Devorah and I feel incredibly blessed to live in such an amazing community, without whom, none of this would be possible.

We are so enthusiastic about the next five years - and many more - and can't wait to share so many precious moments together with all of you!

Of course, stay tuned for a special celebration, just as soon as the situation allows, may it be soon!


Real Protection

 

What an inspiring Yom Kippur, unlike any other! Beautiful minyans, graced by evacuees from the Glass fire.October 2, 2020 - 1.jpg

Hashem, on occasion, we have given you a difficult time. On occasion, you have given us a difficult time (need we elaborate?). But Yom Kippur is about exploring the essence of our relationship, that runs deeper than all of that. Like the love of a father to a child. Unbreakable. Eternal. Essential.

So like a father who wants the best for their child, bless us for a year of only revealed good!

Pictured: Just before the onset of Yom Kippur, it is customary for parents to bless their children with the priestly blessing.

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October 2, 2020 - 2.jpgAnd just like that, we are on to the next Holiday. Sukkot. 

We head outdoors into a temporary structure, covered by branches and leaves. Why?

We install an alarm system, and it makes us feel that our home is protected. We plan our calendar, and think that our schedule is set. We pack a suitcase, and feel that we are prepared for whateverOctober 2, 2020 - 3.jpg awaits us.

The reality, however, is that while we need to take all of these necessary steps, protection, success, and everything else, is dependent on one more not-to-be-forgotten element: Hashem. It is when we surrender to this reality that the blessings can flow, unobstructed. This is the symbolism of the Sukkah, where we eat, drink, relax, (some even sleep) under the canopy of foliage, under the open sky.

In a world that seems ever more chaotic, let's take this week to be mindful of the Divine protection that will carry us above the waves.

 

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