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Hundreds of Candles

Hundreds of candles. Each one held by a soul. Standing there to unite, to share, and to illuminate.

The atmosphere on Tuesday night was surreal. The Community Menorah stood majestically overlooking the Petaluma River. Four candles lit, half of the Menorah's eight. Which would prevail? Which would triumph? Light or darkness?

Looking out at the crowd, it jumped out at me. There was not even a question. It wasn't just the four flames of the Menorah, but many hundreds of individual flames, together forming the brightest of torches. A torch of positivity, a flame of love, a light of kindness.

In a world that at times seems shrouded in darkness, hate, and negativity, let's be Maccabees. Let us kindle a Menorah of light, join forces in beautiful acts of kindness. And we'll see the darkness slink away. Because darkness is simply a void, a lack of light.

Let Chanukah last well into 2017. Shine a smile at a neighbor, rekindle a broken heart, turn night into day. Two candles are brighter than one.

Tomorrow night, the triumph of light is absolute as we light all eight candles.(If you need a Menorah for the last 2 days, don't hesitate to let us know)

Good Shabbos and Happy Chanukah!
Rabbi Dovid Bush

Where are the Candles?!

It began with a facebook post. Someone asking where one can find Chanukah candles in Petaluma.

Sometimes it can seem as though the rest of the world is oblivious to this holiday that is so centralin our lives. Someone mentioned that she had been in a supermarket yesterday, and was told "sure we have Jewish stuff. There's Matzah on aisle 15".

Have you tried finding a roll of Chanukah wrapping paper? Holidays must-haves have become novelty items or totally MIA.

The truth is that this is the story of the Maccabees. The miracle of Chanukah is not only that the oil burned for 8 days instead of one. It is also that they searched for that flask of oil without knowing that it was there. They refused to accept the reality of darkness, and instead pursued light.

When the lights are all turned on, you may not appreciate that single light bulb, with its message of brightness and positivity. When the shelves are stocked with our favorite latkes and jelly doughnuts, we may not treasure the goodness in our lives. When a flame is lit in a dark room, the light is that much stronger. It is significant and meaningful.

Sure, in Jerusalem you can find Chanukah candles in every shape and size. But to do it in Petaluma is to tap into the consciousness of the Maccabees. It means to refuse to settle for less. The darkness that surrounds us is only as powerful as the missing flame.

A little bit of light can chase away a whole lot of darkness.

Happy searching!

Chanukah begins tomorrow night (Saturday). If you or someone you know is in need of candles or a Menorah, please let us know so that every home can shine.

Shabbat Shalom!
Rabbi Dovid Bush

A Wrestling Match

The Children of Israel. That's us, right? But who is Israel?

It dates back to the story from this week's Torah reading when Jacob wrestles with Esau's guardian angel and emerges victorious. Jacob refuses to let the angel depart until he receives a blessing. So the Angel gives him a new name, Israel, which means victory over G-d(s angel).

Looking at it from a Kabbalistic point of view, what emerge are two modes of dealing with challenge.

Jacob struggles, he has to fight his way through the battles of life, the treachery of Laban, escape his brother's murderous intentions. There is no more engaged form of combat than wrestling. It is taking the challenges of life head-on. It's the Soul grappling with the body trying to find and inspire a higher form of living.

The Israel tactic is to rise above. Ascending to a spot where the opposition can't oppose, where the challenge ceases to exist. It's like using your phone while it's connected to the charger. Driving a car with a built-in gas supply.

While this type of connection is always technically available, practically however, as we move through life, we find ourselves mostly identifying with Jacob. It's a grind, a  fight for our values, an uphill battle.

But knowing that we are the Children of Israel, that we have that tether in place, that deep down we have an energy pack that can't be depleted, this energizes us as we take on the world.

If regular day-to-day life is the struggle of Jacob, Shabbat is the charging station of Israel. It is the inspiration and power to navigate the week ahead.

Chanukah is one of those moments when the light shines bright and the darkness vanishes. Please join us on Chanukah as we kindle the lights of Menorah, illuminating the dark, in the world and within our own lives.

The Coldest Morning of 2016

The coldest morning of the year. On Wednesday, it was 28 degrees outside, and not much warmer inside. Our heating system decided that it was an opportune time to take a break.

So there I'm standing, bundled up in a sweater and a jacket (after spending time in Montreal and Ukraine, you'd think I'd be used to the cold), trying to analyze the furnace. It's a fascinating machine featuring flamethrower style elements that are set in motion by a series of triggers. Except that on this frigid morning, the metal remained cold, apathetic to our bone-chilling predicament.

After several YouTube videos and online do-it-yourself manuals failed to coax the heater into working mode, it was time to call in a pro. With such a drastic effect, I was sure that it would be a major component of the heater, like the ignitor, that would need to be replaced.

The verdict? The connection of a wire (yes, a simple wire!) had become eroded over the years. Simply applying pressure to the wire, reestablishing the connection, brought the entire complex system humming back to life.

Winter (as much as we have it here) reminds us to check our internal heating systems. If things get cold in our life, where you're just not feeling it, be it in a relationship or in continuing on our rich traditions, it's time to examine the connections. To make sure that the energy and passion are plugged in.

And the beautiful thing is the contrast. When the heat finally does come on, when you step into the ski lodge, when the electricity comes on after a blackout, that is when you come to appreciate the warmth and vitality that had always been there.

This is the message of Chanukah - the power of a flame kindled on the darkest winter nights.

Please join us this Chanukah season as we celebrate and appreciate connection and warmth. The connection to our heritage. The warmth of community. And the promise of the future.


Shabbat Shalom!
Rabbi Dovid Bush

Road Rage

San Francisco traffic. If you have a car and live in the bay area, you have experienced it. Stuck in bumper to bumper traffic, running late for a meeting or carpool, or simply a "quick trip" to the supermarket. 
It is fascinating to take a moment and imagine where the individual in the car next to yours is heading, and how he or she likely has the same urgency to get to their destination. 
Tensions run high. Everyone has developed their own method to dealing with the madness. Podcasts, audiobooks or music might be the choice for some. Phone calls or blissful silence for others. And then you have road rage. Who are these people?
In this week's Torah portion we read about two seemingly conflicting personalities. Jacob and Esau. Jacob sits and studies in his tent. Esau hunts wild animals. It's fun to imagine what they might look like in 2016, which vehicles they would drive, and which music they might listen to.
But is Esau evil? Did he even have a chance? Or was he a disaster waiting to happen from birth? And how is it that such a terrible child could come from such greats as Isaac and Rebecca?
The answer is that Esau actually had the potential for tremendous greatness. He had tremendous passion and drive. Things that Jacob could not accomplish with his delicate disposition, Esau could have achieved with his abounding energy by channeling his enthusiasm to effect positive change in the world.
It is not who he was, but the choices he made.
We can each identify with one (or both) of these characters. There is a path of study, prayer, and perfection, and just as important, there is a path of doing, passion and struggle. And each one of us has something to learn from the other.
Next time you experience road rage, appreciate the tremendous potential that is waiting to be unleashed. And stay safe :-)

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Chanukah celebrates that triumph of transforming darkness into light. Join us at the Petaluma River on December 27th, or for one of our many other programs leading up to the Festival of Lights. RSVP: 
www.JewishPetaluma.com/Chanukah

Shabbat Shalom!
Rabbi Dovid Bush

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